Posts tagged ‘would’

December 6th, 2011

What is one piece of advice you would give to someone?

Question:
I write a zine and I need submissions. If you could give advice to anyone, a depressed teen, a person struggling with their sexuality, a stressed co-worker, What would it be?
Something like this:
Dear Future Human,

Discard your parent’s prejudices, re-evaluate your own. Ignore the so-called wisdom contained within ancient books. Wisdom isn’t read or taught, it is gained through experience. With that being said, experience everything. Alter your mind, blur your lines, and take every situation and give it a little kick. Never turn down the opportunity for a road trip, you’ll want to experience this world before we destroy it.

Sincerely,

A fulfilled life

It could be shorter. Even one sentence.
Or any inspiring quotes or phrases that you live by,anything.

Thanks!

November 17th, 2011

Who would you agree with?

Question:
My little brother and I are 13.5 years apart. It is just us two, my parents had a hard time conceiving after me so my little brother was a bit of a surprise. I am 21 and he is 8. Even though we have a huge age gap we fight. I know it sounds ridiculous, but my brother is a handful. He does not listen and is very disrespectful towards me. He will hit and call me names and I never see my parents do anything to back me up. I do not discipline him because he is not my child. They think because I am the adult I should know how to handle the situation, without losing my cool. I understand that, but at the same time, shouldn’t my parents teach my little brother to respect me? My mom tells my little brother that “I am just his sister” and tells me “I am 21, I need to respect my brother if I want his respect because he is 8″. Does that not seem a little backwards to anyone else? I really do not want to fit with my mother about this any longer, I feel like our relationship is not like it used to be because she thinks my little brother deserves more respect then me.

I am 35 weeks pregnant with my second child and I am married, we own our own home so I have my own life and family. I do not feel like it is my responsibility to make sure my brother respects me.

Any advice?

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November 17th, 2011

Who would you agree with?

Question:
My little brother and I are 13.5 years apart. It is just us two, my parents had a hard time conceiving after me so my little brother was a bit of a surprise. I am 21 and he is 8. Even though we have a huge age gap we fight. I know it sounds ridiculous, but my brother is a handful. He does not listen and is very disrespectful towards me. He will hit and call me names and I never see my parents do anything to back me up. I do not discipline him because he is not my child. They think because I am the adult I should know how to handle the situation, without losing my cool. I understand that, but at the same time, shouldn’t my parents teach my little brother to respect me? My mom tells my little brother that “I am just his sister” and tells me “I am 21, I need to respect my brother if I want his respect because he is 8″. Does that not seem a little backwards to anyone else? I really do not want to fit with my mother about this any longer, I feel like our relationship is not like it used to be because she thinks my little brother deserves more respect then me.

I am 35 weeks pregnant with my second child and I am married, we own our own home so I have my own life and family. I do not feel like it is my responsibility to make sure my brother respects me.

Any advice?

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November 8th, 2011

What resources would i need to teach my boy, respect?

Question:
parenting tips on teaching kids respect.
October 29th, 2011

Im moving into my first home and would like some tips?

Question:
Im moving into my first home from my parents house so I will be buying everything. I would like to get some tips on extra expences I might have. Also any tips that might save me money and what should I buy before I move in and what should I buy after. Also what can I save money on.
October 15th, 2011

What grade would you give my essay?

Question:
What grade would you give my essay on crime and punishment in the victorian era? Any advice? I especially need ideas/help for the conclusion! by the way this is for my 9th grade preAP english class.
Thanks! (The essay is below)

The Victorian Publics’ Outlook on Crime and Punishment
Locking doors, cautious eyes, and dreadful hallucinations of footsteps throughout the night, fearful dreams, and murderous thoughts clung to the minds of Victorians. No mercy, sympathy, forgiveness, compassion, or charity was the instant effect towards criminals. Although the press generated much of their ideas and panic towards crime and punishment, Victorian’s still held very strong opinions. The harsh punishment following crime in the Victorian era reflects the firm, and sometimes, unforgiving beliefs of people during that time.
Throughout the Victorian era the media played a big role on the public’s thoughts on crime and punishment. People weren’t aware how rare the huge criminal cases were. “It was always the more sensational stories that make the headlines and generate public fears, even panics.” (Emsley 321) Many people encouraged severe punishment because of their narrow views of criminals being serial killers. Dr. Thomas Neil Cream, who had murdered seven women, was the ideal example. “He was the kind of criminal who, by his actions, appeared both mad and evil; the kind of criminal that the general public want criminals to be – especially once they have been caught and executed.” (Emsley 1) This fear invited unforgiving attitudes towards crime. What Victorian’s didn’t know about murders was that only one per 100,000 people was murdered in the late 1800s. The threat was extremely unlikely. “Much of the panic appears to be generated by the press, notably the influential Times, which was seeking tougher punishment for offenders.” (Emsley 2) The press practically brainwashed people into promoting harder punishments for offenders. The media was the greatest influence on people in the Victorian era. It put fear, insecurity, and unforgiving feelings in the minds of many Victorians, which helped to lead to the unreasonable punishments for small crimes.
The press furthered their hopes for tougher consequences for offenders by publishing individuals’ crimes for the public to see, as a form of humiliating punishment. The offender’s full name and offence were listed in the local paper. “The first batch of miscreants to have their crimes publicized included twenty-three such dog-owners, three residents guilty of noise pollution, and four families who had been deemed ‘bad neighbors’.” (Croll 1) The media was trying to demonstrate punishment in any way that was possible. Having a dog, creating noise pollution, or being deemed a ‘bad neighbor’ does not seem like very appropriate crimes to be punished for, but in the 1800s it was considered quite outlandish. “ ‘Publicity’ was still seen as a means of both punishment and deterring; a way to regulate behavior in the great towns and cities of the nineteenth century.” (Croll 2) This ‘publicity’ had its planned and unplanned effects on society. It was planned for discipline to make that area a better place to live, work, and be around. It was not planned to bring panic upon the citizens. “The perception of such offenders could color the way offences were reported and provoke a panic as, most notably with London’s ‘garotting panic’ of 1862.” (Emsley 1) The unintentional scare made people even more concerned about criminals being punished firmly. Victorians just wanted to know that criminals were getting the punishment they deserved.
The public promoted the laborious jobs that young offenders were enduring at the time. Victorians thought children should be treated no differently than adults, including when it came to punishment. They believed punishment was the answer for the young. “Early Victorians and intermediate predecessors were concerned about what they believed to be an increase in criminal offences among the young.” (Emsley 323) For juvenile offences, children were sent to work. “Young offenders were taken to ‘houses of refuge’. These were ‘safe places’ where offenders were kept secure and sheltered from the risks of street life.” (Townsend 17) The public approved of these asylums. They cared about the safety of children, but believed that honest, hard work would teach them to be good citizens. The interests of Victorians were firm and decided. If a child misbehaved there were even further consequences. “If anyone broke the rules, he or she would spend days in a cell with just bread and water. The inmate was forced to sit chained to a heavy iron ball and was whipped.” (Townsend 17) The public had quite a bit of commentary in what was happening in the ‘houses of refuge’. They encouraged whipping young children under eighteen for disobedience. They thought the asylums would change the present juvenile delinquents into the future’s respectful citizens. Punishment was just a revitalizing process that corrected this so though, ill behavior.
Fear can easily intoxicate the mind if you let it. People in the Victorian era absorbed all they heard, fear, violence, and horrific stories. They especially pursued anything, and everything that revolved around the press and media. They let that fear inhabit their thoughts. No mercy, sympathy, forgiveness, compassion, or charity was the main result. The harsh punishments following crime were the reflections of fear, which created the firm, and unforgiving beliefs of most Victorians.

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October 3rd, 2011

can i still live out my dream? i would prefer ballet dancers to respond please!!?

Question:
ok so im am 17 and with be going into my senior of high school and since i was little i’ve dreamed of being a “prima ballerina”. i do dance but its jazz and modern and things like that and its really not doing me no justice, i love dancing i do it everyday since forever but i want to do something new something that i have been wanting to do forever. my brothers ex. girlfriend was a ballerina and she told me that if i start now i would be in a class with little children and that would be fine but is it allow. i have rhythm and balance and discipline, but i want to put it to better use.so i guess the question is

can i still become a ballerina?how will it all work out

i am a fast learner and will be doing this all through college

if you have any advice it would be appreciated thanks in advance
and if it makes a difference i have been dancing since i was 6 just not ballet

September 10th, 2011

Am I a weird 18yo teen? What advice would u give me in life?

Question:
Am I a weird person. I am gonna e 18 in July. And I have never had a girlfriend. I am not gonna move out. In my culture it’s normal for kids to live with their parents and take care of them when they are old. Btw. The girl I love and loved since I was 9/10 hates me for no reason.
I am gonna be graduating in a week from high school and my parents haven’t even thought of a graduation present. I understand with all the money problems but it doesnt hurt to spend a bit. I do not have a job.

What tips would u give for me in the future? I am planning on going to college. But my grades are dropping massively. :(

August 18th, 2011

Any advice? I really would appreciate any from anyone.?

Question:
I know that the teen section is for parents to ask questions about their teens but I figure there’s alot of people here who could answer this. My question is this: I used to go to school with these girls and we were really good friends but then they did like a 360 on me and now they hate me. Actually I think they are just jealous but I’m not going to get into that…
Here’s the thing, I’m still very very mad at them for hurting me so badly and I’m looking for a way to just completely get back at them. I don’t go to school anymore but I still have friends that go to that school and sometimes at basketball games, etc. I see them. What can I do or say if I ever run into them again that would completely let them see that I don’t need them and that they are missing out on something great? I know this is lame, but it’s not really getting back at them, it’s more like closure.
That’s the thing though. I’ve spent so much time feeling bad about it and now that I’ve moved on I want them to see that I have.
July 31st, 2011

Would a Siberian Husky make a good pet for our family?

Question:
I just saw the cutest 8 week old siberian husky puppy and i want want want!! its the most adorable thing ever. but a friend says theyre more of a hunting breed than a family pet breed. i know nothing about dogs… i have a phobia of dogs passed on from my mother who was chased by a german shepherd as a child when she was riding her bike to school…. im scared of dogs but not puppies. about our family: we have 7 people in the house. me, my husband and my parents, 8 year old daughter, 3 yr old son, and a newborn. we’re all pretty lazy. so i would prefer a low maintenance dog… maybe walk it once or twice a week. also im not very good with discipline and being strict .if you ever meet my children you will know what i mean. so how would you describe the temperament of siberian husky? with children? with family? (e.g. towards my mom, she is worried that i’m thinking of getting a dog)? with strangers? with other small pets? do they ever bite?
any info / advice appreciated!! thanks :)

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