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November 13th, 2011

I need help, I am in a weird situation? (drug related) please some advice or opinions.?

Question:
Three very important people in my life smoke marijuana. I have tried to make them stop i talk to them but they wont seem to change their minds. They think of pot as a normal cool thing to do. We are still teens. Two of them are 15 and the other one is 16. I don’t know if im over reacting and weed is not so bad after all. They fool their parents by making them believe they don’t do drugs. I am scared that they might end up doing harder drugs or even get hurt. I am going to feel extreamly guilty if i don’t put an end to this.I am also afraid to lose their friendship. What do i do? Is marijuana really not that bad? Ahh! Advice or opinions please?

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November 12th, 2011

Date advice from the teen girls please?

Question:
Well this weekend I have a date with a girl I REALLY REALLY REALLY like (sorry) but anywho, we are just going to her house and watching a movie. Of course im meeting her parents and I am hoping everything goes fine. The thing is we are waiting til we see eachother in person to decide if we wanna date as bf/gf. Cause we met through a friend and have talked on the phone and myspace. I asked her if she would have a prob if I held her hand during the movie and she said she would not. So my question is would it be out of my place to kiss her on the cheek during the movie? Just like a random quick peck on the cheek when her folks arnt in the room. Or i was thinking I would put my arm around her so we may cuddle a little bit.. but what do you think? THANKS LOTS!

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November 6th, 2011

Can I have some singing tips, please?

Question:
I need some singing tips. I’ve been singing for awhile, actually since I could talk, and I need some tips.
My parents won’t let me take lessons, so can you guys just add tips except for taking lessons.
Like breathing and stuff. I know how to sing out of my diaphram and stuff, but I won’t to improve.
THANKS!

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November 5th, 2011

Hey, so this is pretty important and i need some advice… please read and help me out.?

Question:
so I’m 14, I’m an artist, and I hate my parents. I hate everything about them, everything they stand for and I just want out. All I ever wanted to do in life was just to be on stage. To audition to sing to be around art… I just someone to work me, as hard as I can, because I have so much potental and all I want to do is just work. I mean how many teens do you hear that from? I live in the middle of no where. I’ve raised myself, I spend every wakeing minute I’m not at school at this little theater a half hour away. I’ve also been contacting every theater in my city, and every agency in the state, and I’m.. not to sound conseeded, but I’m so talented. I just wish I was somewhere else, with someone to not take care of me, but my career and just to give me oppertunitys. But I’m starting to understand, that will never happen. Is there anyway for me to be happy? Does anyone have any advice for me?

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November 3rd, 2011

If you have time, and a heart, and good advice for a 14 y/ girl. Please click?

Question:
Sorry if its long, I actually wrote this in my notebook a couple nights ago && realized it sitting there wont do me anygood. Maybe some random strangers have good advice. You have to read all of it, or you migt miss some thing I say to answer me

lets start. I have this life, I have never liked as a teenager. I’ve only been a teenager for 1 1/2 years, but you know what I mean. When I was a younger kid I was so carefree and up until I was 9 and moved to Georgia. I hated life. I went to school in 4th grade and I would cry everyday because the kids were so cruel to me. They would pretend to be my friend then get mad at me for no reason just to make me cry because I would think I didn’t have any friends. I’m not going to go into detail with my entire life but, basically here it is.
Moved when I was 9, hated school, brother did drugs, brother went to rehab, mom started choking (because of condition she used to have), brother ran away for 6 months, dad got fired, brother tried to kill himself, I went into depression, have low self esteem, gained 15 pounds, almost failed to 8th grade, bullied in school, and here we are today.

That doesn’t sound all that bad, but if you were me, and you knew all the details, ,it would suck for you. I’m not saying I have the worst life ever because I know other teens have it worse, but I just.. gah

Now: I do not like life, everday I roll out of bed dreading life, because of where I live and my life I have where I live. I personally hate it here
Why? I just do.The fcking location, the fake@ss rich bi*tc*hes, the atmosphere, EVERYTHING! Just everything about this place makes me dread life. I have never been happy, see I want to be in Colorado/Wyoming. I just want to be there, I have family there, and even better its not here. And there, it is all better, no worries are there. I would be the most happy person if I moved to Colorado/Wyoming. I want to like life, so much. So much that I cry everyday because I try so hard to like it, and at the end of the day its just never real. Its always fake. My mom told me to get over the wanting to move, the wanting to leave thing. But I cant, I don’t know why I just cant. I can’t get over the fact that everyday I’m more and more scared of the future, because I know I’ll be miserable.

I don’t have any good memories here, I don’t have any real friends, I don’t have a life here. When I try to tell my mom all this, she wont listen to me, at all. She tells me to get over it. She also said I can’t runaway from your promblems. Thats not running away from your problems. Its helping myself ast a person. Sure, I’m leaving but everyone leaves eventually. Maybe I’m too young to realize its runnig way or maybe my mom is just coming up with excuses.

My best friend in the entire world lives in colorado. Her name is Ann&&I’m jealous of her because she gets to move to Wyoming. I want that more then anything. I don’t care if its Wyoming I don’t care if its colorado. Being with her would make it all better. Thats not the reason I want to move just so you know

I think about my life if I was to move to Colorado/Wyoming and I smile. I feel happy I have a glow, I’m not scared of that life. I think about my life here. and I litterally start crying. I want to be happy, I WANT TO BE HAPPY, I just cant seem to be happy here. I can’t

I seriously do not just want to move because I’m bored, I really think this will help me. My future here scares me, because I know I’ll be so miserable. I’m even more scared of killing myself because I’ll be so upset with life. I don’t think my parents realize how miserable I am…

You’re not suppose to dread life, and I don’t want to anymore.
Please… help me. What should I do?

I have tried talking to my mom about it so many times. She told me if I mention it one more time she’ll ground me for a month and have my phone deactivated

&&This place in Georgia, is not a place where you find real friends, they’re fake girls. They’re not true. And I’m telling you I have tried to be happy!!

Therapy is not an option, I have to move, I have to leave here or else I’m scared or what I’ll do
-I realize this is my 2nd time asking-
Ok I’m guessing you guys didn’t read it

I’m not just some fcuking whining teenager who is bored and wants to move. I’m probably gonna end up killing myself if I stay here, and you guys are acting like its not that big of a deal. Why would I want to go to school in Colorado or Wyoming? Nothing is there, I want to be there now. If I can’t move there now then fcuk that siht I’ll slit my throat

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October 30th, 2011

Please read my story below, I need advice!?

Question:
I am 14 yrs old, and have Scoliosis. It is bad, yes, enough that most doctors want me to have surgery. However, I have been going to a different doctor who uses the European brace, {BTW, it works, unlike the Boston brace, that made mine worse} and has helped me a bunch. Recently, he told me to lose some weight so the brace can work to it’s full potential. I have lost 15 lbs. But, to do that, I have had to really restrict my diet, and do lots of cardio workouts.
In the past, I have had Hypo-thyroidism, and Osgood Schlatters. {Osgood whatever is meant for atheletes, and trust me, I’m no athlete. I am a bookworm} But, with my luck got it. It was fixed, but the pain still remains. So, running isn’t too much fun. Hypo-thryoidism is being supressed by my medication, but still has effects. It is a gland in your body, and mine is messed up in a way that your metabolism slows down.
As you can read, I am having a VERY difficult time in my life. Trying to balance it all with my hobbies is mentally and physically exhausting. I want to be like most teens, and live life happily. But with all my problems, I get depressed. It is very hard to not realize how messed up I really am. At least once a week, I cry myself to sleep. My parents don’t know, because I don’t want them to, so don’t think about advising me to tell them. Cause I won’t. Anywho, the smallest things make me want to cry now. It helps that I’m writing a novel with a main character having emotional difficulties, but it doesn’t last long. Please, pleasepleasepleaseplease help me. I’m so tired of my life being this way. Please don’t make any rude comments, I don’t appreciate ill humor. Help me, I need advice of what to do.

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October 22nd, 2011

please help me out! need advice on a newsletter :)?

Question:
I want to start a unique uplifting newsletter! I need everyones advice whether its bad or good pleassee!?
Ok first off, thanks for reading this. Since my letter will be going to people like you, its vital for me to have your opinions.

Here is my idea-

While watching the news, reading the newspaper, basically listening to everyones convos- I notice one thing- its all bad!
No one ever talks about the good things in life anymore. ITs who murdered who, how our markets are dropping, teen suicide rates, etc.

Am i right?

I love to write! But I dislike writing at school because I like to free write my thoughts while including others, not write about a particular subject a teacher gives me that I may know nothing about and have to fake that I do.

So…..
I want to disperse a local womens/family newsletter.

MY ideas
Include good positive uplifting things like: (tell me if these are weird or too generic)

1 GOOD things people have done in our local communituy (i live in a pretty big one)

2. GOOD rates/statisics

3. ways to shop better even if its just some good low cost recipes

4. I have to include some workout/motivational tips since its a womens newsletter.

5. ways to do more things that cost less like matinee movie days, crafts, how to find good scholarships, schools with good tuition.

6. parenting tips,makeup tips, inexpensive spa treatment ideas you can do with home goods

7. alot of people want to volunteer or donate time but dont know where or how, so i would include local events like runs, walks, breakfasts, benefit dinners people could help with or if they have money they could help sponser.

8. maybe coupons? I was thinking if it got popular I could ask local boutiques or shops to buy a block of advertising from my newsletter and they could include like (bring this add and get 15 percent off) stuff.

9. ways to recycle, reuse etc

I want my newsletter to follow the theme “be the change”
everyone wants a changeing world…. but no one is doing anything about it.

let me know what you think whether its harsh or not. I love to listen.

also, I need ideas on how to pay for stamps and such. I would just put my newsletter around shops till it got a little popular, then people could join a mailing list and I could charge a few bucks a month for like a bi-weekly newsletter??

would you as someone who would read something like this pay a few bucks to get a newsleter of this sort sent to you twice a month?

Yes, I am a very girly girl. I do everything from four wheeling to pageants. Sorry if I sound too fakey/dreamy world like. I have goals/dreams and I am always looking for ways to share a few smiles!
A little about me -
I am 21, have lived on my own for 2 years, have 9 brothers and sisters so (thats where im good with children) ha, and I babysitt alot. I work full time and attend school full time and do alot of thinds in my community.

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October 20th, 2011

moms- please read this- need advice?

Question:
I want to start a unique uplifting newsletter! I need everyones advice whether its bad or good pleassee!?
Ok first off, thanks for reading this. Since my letter will be going to people like you, its vital for me to have your opinions.

Here is my idea-

While watching the news, reading the newspaper, basically listening to everyones convos- I notice one thing- its all bad!
No one ever talks about the good things in life anymore. ITs who murdered who, how our markets are dropping, teen suicide rates, etc.

Am i right?

I love to write! But I dislike writing at school because I like to free write my thoughts while including others, not write about a particular subject a teacher gives me that I may know nothing about and have to fake that I do.

So…..
I want to disperse a local womens/family newsletter.

MY ideas
Include good positive uplifting things like: (tell me if these are weird or too generic)

1 GOOD things people have done in our local communituy (i live in a pretty big one)

2. GOOD rates/statisics

3. ways to shop better even if its just some good low cost recipes

4. I have to include some workout/motivational tips since its a womens newsletter.

5. ways to do more things that cost less like matinee movie days, crafts, how to find good scholarships, schools with good tuition.

6. parenting tips,makeup tips, inexpensive spa treatment ideas you can do with home goods

7. alot of people want to volunteer or donate time but dont know where or how, so i would include local events like runs, walks, breakfasts, benefit dinners people could help with or if they have money they could help sponser.

8. maybe coupons? I was thinking if it got popular I could ask local boutiques or shops to buy a block of advertising from my newsletter and they could include like (bring this add and get 15 percent off) stuff.

9. ways to recycle, reuse etc

I want my newsletter to follow the theme “be the change”
everyone wants a changeing world…. but no one is doing anything about it.

let me know what you think whether its harsh or not. I love to listen.

also, I need ideas on how to pay for stamps and such. I would just put my newsletter around shops till it got a little popular, then people could join a mailing list and I could charge a few bucks a month for like a bi-weekly newsletter??

would you as someone who would read something like this pay a few bucks to get a newsleter of this sort sent to you twice a month?

Yes, I am a very girly girl. I do everything from four wheeling to pageants. Sorry if I sound too fakey/dreamy world like. I have goals/dreams and I am always looking for ways to share a few smiles!

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October 9th, 2011

I need lots of advice… please help?

Question:
Ok guys. So I am fifteen years old and have been hooked on horses all my life, been working around horses for three years, and been riding horses for two years. I would absolutely love to own a horse someday, but I know now is not the time because we simply can not afford one. I have been searching sites for horses for sale (just dreaming and for fun haha) and have been looking at leases. I’ve found a few free leases where I would simply have to pay for board, and feed and of course any surprise, horrible vet bills that could possibly come up. These leases are mainly greaet horses with owners going off to college and wanting another great person to love and exersise their horse while they’re away. There is a barn that is actually a thirty second drive from my house that is rough board (turn out & feed, turn in & feed) that costs 350 a month. I am already there practically every single day for at least three hours just finding things to do, riding, and volunteering in the therapeudic program. I need advice about making the money, and how much money is enough of a base to finally decide to lease a horse. My parents are fully supportive and I am sure would try their hardest to chip in with as much as they can, but I would feel better if at least 85% of the expenses were on me. I would never get a horse without being fully prepared, I am just asking when people thing I would be FINANCIALLY fully prepared. I am a confident intermidiate rider and am working with a trainer and would get a horse that knows most his stuff anyways :]

Do people have job suggestions? Any teens that help work off their horses? I was thinking Dunkin Donuts, and other fast food places because I need them to hire at the age of fifteen or sixteen. Does anyone know how many hours and days a week they hire? Again, I am looking for a good place to save up, and eventually save enough up for a lease. Specific jobs (not jobs like babysit, work at barn, stuff like that, because I DO those jobs already!) I definitely want to at least be leasing a horse within two years. Soo, any advice, suggestions, personal experiences, and such that have to do with y little ‘plan’? Anything would be appretiated, thank you!

SORRY FOR THE LENGTH (there was lots to go over and as :] )

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October 8th, 2011

Little SISTERS Are “Tramps” Now – Advice Please?

Question:
I am the oldest. I have 2 younger sisters (21yrs old & 18yrs old) We grew up in a Christian household where our parents (mainly dad) taught us right from wrong. We did not drink, smoke, curse, or have multiple sex partners. (no pre-marital sex). We were allowed to hang out with friends & go to parties & stuff as long as a responsible parent was there. Also my dad liked to meet our friend’s parents so that he could know who he was sending his kids to. (which I think is what any good parent would do; especially with all the perverts out there)

Anywho, my mother grew up in an overly strict household because her father (my grandpa) was a pastor & wanted to protect his image/reputation around town & in other countries. He was a HUGE & well know/respected person in the ministry so he wanted to make sure his kids did not make him look bad. Because of this he went WAY over board & beat the living crap out of them. He was controlling & never let them do anything except go to church. As a result my mother (she was never beaten but saw her siblings being abused) got screwed up. When it came to parenting she did not believe in any form of disipline or boundaries. She is kind of like the ‘Kardasian’ mother. My mom is in La La Land & wants to be our best friends instead of a parent. Because of this my dad got stressed out & could not raise us with a spouse who would always want to do the opposite of what he believed in…………..they are getting a divorce.

Anyway my two sisters got involved with the wrong friends. Even though my dad disagreed because he knew my sister was a followerer …my mom still paid to let my sister go to college in a really bad neighboorhood. As a result my sister started doing things she was not raised to do & sleeping with random dudes including ones who were in a relationship. Now my younger sister is following her footsteps. My younger sister knows NOTHING about life. Simple things that an intelligent 18 yr old should know, she has no clue. All she literally does is talk to her slutty friends 24/7 & dress like a skank at the club to pick up guys. (dont tell me that all teens act this way because I never did…& not everyone acts like that) Basically both of them are headed down to a path of distruction and they wont listen to me because my mom bashed me & told them that I am brainwashed. =/

I am thinking of writing a letter to both my sisters & my warped minded ‘Kardasian like’ mother…telling them how I feel & that I will no longer be keeping contact until they grow up (sisters) & start acting like decent young ladies.

Thoughts??

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