Posts tagged ‘needs’

November 26th, 2011

Child Needs Help to go the right path?

Question:
My son got caught with marijuana at school, got suspended, grades are failing. Lack of motivation, disrespectful. I being the father has visitation rights every other week and my son lives 50 miles away. He lives where drugs are a major problem at school and neighborhood. I want him to get help but the mother has not done a thing. After his suspension, he returned back to the same school, but is grounded. He needs psychological help, needs a father fighure, and needs someone that can discipline and teach him the right way. His mom (ex girl friend), puts no effort. What can I do legally? Can I go to child services? He is in 10th grade. I cannot stand there and do nothing. I cannot sleep worrying about my son. Please give advice to father. What can I do to make the mother be more proactive. I feel like a helpless father. Thank you
November 16th, 2011

A Teen Parent Website – Your Needs!?

Question:
I am interested in building an extremely comprehensive website for teen parents with resources for financial aid, different types of support, setting up a budget, etc (I was a teen parent and am now SAHM of 2 and married 4 years). THis question is just for teen parents or people who have had direct contact with teen parents and know what they would need in a website like this. I have searched for a lot of sites and only really found links to sign up for mailing lists for coupons and such and this is not what teen parents need – they need REAL advice and REAL help. So what would you want on a website? What would it take to get you to visit a teen parent site on a regular basis? If you were/are a teen parent, what is a resource that you desperately need(ed) but would want help finding? Please keep all political, snide, pro-anything debates to yourself. I really am looking for information from those who are there or have been there so that I can better serve their needs.
October 15th, 2011

Really, You’ve Done Enough: A Parents Guide to Stop Parenting Their Adult Child Who Still Needs Their Money But Not Their Advice

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Let’s face it, everyone goes through the painful transition of learning that parents are really just people…people with faults, who probably made grievous errors when they raised you. And “Really You’ve Done Enough” has plenty of case studies, illustrations, charts, graphs, bullet points, and lists to prove it.Twenty-somethings, or as “Time” magazine calls them, “Twixters,” often find themselves, post-college, reevaluating their relationship with their parents.Packaged as an instructional guide to parents, this book for twenty-somethings is a humorous take on adult children’s relationships with their invasive parents. In the tradition of popular television shows like “The Daily Show with Jon Stewart”, the boo… More >>

Really, You’ve Done Enough: A Parents Guide to Stop Parenting Their Adult Child Who Still Needs Their Money But Not Their Advice

August 1st, 2011

a child that needs to grow up?

Question:
im 21years old and ive never really matured from living off my father.
hes always paid for rent while i worked to pay off for my own expenses such as clothes, food, and hanging out with friends..its been like this for 3 years now and i havent matured to save up for my own car or even really thought about looking towards my career..everytime i do i just try to juggle school with work and then end up giving up afterwards.
relationships were my life after highschool and i tend to look to others for advice constantly to help me with self discipline.
i havent done much for myself at all these years because i usually care for others and their goals rather than myself. sitting down and thinking about what id like to do has never been a thought because im muddled . people tell me that i should just join the air force, take up classes in career exploration..however the simplest things i dont even do..like actually attending these classes or getting up early..its the no hope i have inside of me..and the child. i never had parents for discipline but even so i never taught myself discipline
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July 1st, 2011

Daycare Giver needs advice on parent, what would you do?

Question:
I run a home daycare and have a bit of a strange family. Mom is a little odd in a goofy way, but Dad just plain creeps me out. It isn’t that he has said anything wrong. He barely speaks, kind of stares strangely, sneaks up quietly watching me, and freaking out my teen girls too with his learing quiet behaviour. My husband has tried some friendly chat, and can’t get through to the guy. Do you think he is a total snob or just super shy? Any advice? I am fairly outgoing and I am quite attached to child and don’t think it is fair to give notice and let child go, just because dad is oddball. I don’t think it would be appropriate to say anything to the wife to let on I think her husband is weird. Help! What would you do? Continue to grin and bear it?
June 17th, 2011

Bisexual teen needs advice! =(?

Question:
Hi guys,
I’m really confused at the moment.
I’m bisexual, always have been but recently accepted it. I’m 17 and I’ve dated girls and I’m currently dating my first guy. The thing is I want to explore the other side of my sexuality while i’m young and end up with a girl. I’m closeted bi, and I’m secretly seeing this guy (which is hard, he lives an hour away from me) and I’m staying the night at his house friday, which I have to lie to my parents and say I’m visiting a mate ages away.

I really like him, almost love him, but I don’t think I can come out about it. Am I doing the right thing here? He knows im closeted bi and accepts it, but I still don’t feel secure about doing it and I know sooner or later it will be suspicious that I go away once a week for a day to meet up with him somewhere. I’m doing what I want, which is dating a very incredible guy now (we’ve only had 2 dates and we totally click already) but i’m really afraid of getting older and not being accepted by a girl or my family for having a bi past if I come out.

I’d really appreciate some advice as to whether or not i’m doing the right thing =( I don’t like secretly meeting up and lieing to stay at his house the night this week.

May 9th, 2011

The Autism Book: What Every Parent Needs to Know About Early Detection, Treatment, Recovery, and Prevention

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With clarity and compassion, Dr. Robert Sears guides the reader through the maze of autism, explaining what precautions parents can take to decrease their baby’s risk, how to detect autism at the earliest possible age, and how to proceed once a diagnosis has been made. The book provides parents with a simple and clear understanding of the biomedical treatment approach that Dr. Sears has used successfully with many of his young patients. It lays out a plan for developmental, behavioral, and learning therapies; shows parents how to begin treatments without a doctor’s help; presents information on vaccines and their safe use; and includes an extensive resources section. THE AUTISM BOOK provides all the information… More >>

The Autism Book: What Every Parent Needs to Know About Early Detection, Treatment, Recovery, and Prevention

April 30th, 2011

Some advice from a dentist/dental assistant? (Needs a detailed answer-please don’t bother if you can’t be)?

Question:
A family member of mine needs to get braces at some point. Since it is so hard to describe, he was willing to let me take some pictures in order to try to get some advice before picking a dentist.

When he was about 5-7 years or so of age, approximately, he somehow fell and hit his mouth on the floor. His top front set of teeth went over his bottom lip and basically bit a hole in the skin about half of an inch below his bottom lip. Having been raised in an extremely poor family with a single parent, the money was never available for him to go to a dentist and get it fixed early on in life. Instead, he grew up in school being made fun of for the ‘gap’ in his teeth. He’s just miserable and 26 years old. A lot of his effort went to helping his family first, so he has really neglected himself. Apparently the fall and trauma seems to have caused his teeth to grow in very much incorrectly on the front; top and bottom, and possibly even affecting the back. It looks like some of the very back widsom teeth grew in crooked.

He also has one tooth in the very back bottom left (I think these are called molars or something?) that has a large cavity. The tooth is basically ‘hollow’ and black with the cavity. Likely not possible to save it. There seems to be a (not yet formed well) cavity directly in front of that tooth, as well. That one…a dentist should be able to just drill it out and fill it since it’s not bad.

Pictures are here:

http://img292.imageshack.us/img292/1969/miniimg0153ek6.jpg (note: that top tooth that looks like it has puffy white stuff around it…that’s not apparently any type of infection or anything. Gross as it may be…apparently that’s something left over from food.)

http://img522.imageshack.us/img522/6586/miniimg0168hu0.jpg (The small front bottom teeth directly in the middle have a type of tan/brownish color towards the roots. Is this normal for those particular teeth?) Also, the white ‘spot’ in the back is not a disease, cancer or whatever – he says he has dealt with canker sores on and off from his early youth and they sometimes get back on the back part of the throat and such).

http://img243.imageshack.us/img243/4033/miniimg0156kn9.jpg

Obviously, perhaps a cleaning and those cavities would most likely be the first things a dentist might want to do.

But what would his options for braces be? Would he be able to get the invisalign things, or would that not work for the condition of his teeth and the multiple ‘gaps’ to the point where not many of them line up in the front? It looks like his teeth on the bottom go further out than the teeth on the top do, which also seems to make the ‘gap’ in the middle look larger (underbite?)
Oh yeah, he speaks with a ‘lisp’ due to the air that blows through the gap in his teeth…particularly the two top front teeth. It makes it hard for him to speak. He says that some of the teeth halfway back are sort of inwards and may not be giving his tongue enough room to move and rest properly between the teeth, which makes it hard for others to understand him (in addition to his very southern accent, which makes it miserable for him to work in customer service – his current job field).

Ahead of time, before any answers are posted to this question…be advised that I will report every nonserious answer, ever “insult” answer, and every answer that does the “that’s too long, do you expect me to read that?” thing. Thanks.

April 24th, 2011

The Everything Breastfeeding Book: Basic Techniques and Reassuring Advice Every New Mother Needs to Know

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More and more women are choosing to breastfeed their babies. You may be surprised, however, to learn that nursing doesn’t always come easily. The Everything® Breastfeeding Book is a friendly, unintimidating primer that helps you make lifestyle choices that work for you and your child-and make feedings a wonderful time for bonding. The Everything® Breastfeeding Book, written by a certified breastfeeding educator, is packed with professional advice on every aspect of breastfeeding-from the first moments of latching on, to ensuring that your baby is well fortified, to ultimately weaning the baby off the breast. This thorough, easy-to-follow guide features professional, practical information on: The most comforta… More >>

The Everything Breastfeeding Book: Basic Techniques and Reassuring Advice Every New Mother Needs to Know

April 20th, 2011

When Your Child Has a Strong-Willed Personality: Understand your Child’s Needs… Tailor Your Parenting Techniques… Help Your Child

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Many parents of strong-willed children feel inadequate or like they?re doing something wrong. But this isn?t true! Although strong-willed children do present a unique challenge, it is possible for Mom and Dad to tailor parenting practices and actually enjoy their time with the kids. Written by two distinguished parenting authorities, this book offers specific advice on the serious problems that face so many parents. Finally readers can relax, as they learn how to: regain control of their family; reap the benefits of healthy communication; discipline to teach, not to punish; resolve conflict effectively; and overcome willfulness in older children. When every mealtime, bathtime, and bedtime is a struggle, discour… More >>

When Your Child Has a Strong-Willed Personality: Understand your Child’s Needs… Tailor Your Parenting Techniques… Help Your Child


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