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February 4th, 2012

Can anyone give me some tips for an Australian Shephard?

Question:
I’ll most likely be buying one in September, I’m 15 and I’ll probably be the main owner, I’m saving 700 dollars my parents are paying for the rest like the vet bills, ect. I read countless articles on the computer from all sites like doginfo, animal planet wikipedia and CKC. But I want to here what you people who know, own, or have owned an Aussie think about them and what are some tips? I’ll probably getting a girl because i’m a guy, and I have a male sheltie who is 4 and shy/timid but good with dogs, and I have a 8 year old cat who doesn’t do good with strange dogs. I’ll be getting her at about 9 or 10 weeks old. What are some tips?
December 21st, 2011

Will someone please give me some tips for my upcoming road test?

Question:
My parents have given me a lot of driving experience, so I’m sure that I’ll be OK. But still, I’d like some tips on the little things, such as checking both ways when pulling into an intersection, where the person giving me the test might demerit me.
December 6th, 2011

What is one piece of advice you would give to someone?

Question:
I write a zine and I need submissions. If you could give advice to anyone, a depressed teen, a person struggling with their sexuality, a stressed co-worker, What would it be?
Something like this:
Dear Future Human,

Discard your parent’s prejudices, re-evaluate your own. Ignore the so-called wisdom contained within ancient books. Wisdom isn’t read or taught, it is gained through experience. With that being said, experience everything. Alter your mind, blur your lines, and take every situation and give it a little kick. Never turn down the opportunity for a road trip, you’ll want to experience this world before we destroy it.

Sincerely,

A fulfilled life

It could be shorter. Even one sentence.
Or any inspiring quotes or phrases that you live by,anything.

Thanks!

November 1st, 2011

Stressful Family problems. Can someone give me advice?

Question:
I turned 18 a few weeks ago and I am an Alumni, C/o ’09..I’m more stressed out than I should be. Usually for average teens, they only things they should be stressed about is getting a job and going to college. I’m really stressed out and I feel like I have no one to turn to, especially since it is after 3am here. I got some money from graduation but my parents told me if I wanted or needed something to use my own money, mind you I don’t have a job yet, and it’s really hard to find one. Then within these couple of weeks my little sister who is 13, acts like a smart a**. The other day, I was out with my boyfriend and I have to come in at 9pm. My dad is away on a business trip but he doesn’t mind if I come home after 9pm as long as it’s before 10. My mom’s friend is over and she sees that I come home late, so she says “JUST BECAUSE YOUR FATHER ISN’T HOME DOESN’T MEAN YOU CAN TAKE ADVANTAGE OF HIM AND COME HOME 25 MINUTES LATE.” she doesn’t even get a chance to let my mom talk to me. Then here goes my sister saying “you know u should come home after 9pm”…

Then earlier, I was doing my mom’s hair, My mom is very tender headed, so it was kinda hurting her but she didn’t tell me to stop doing her hair. Here goes my sister again getting smart saying “that means stop doing her hair, it hurts her” and im like “okay” then shes like “dont get smart, im just telling u” so then we get into a childish argument just because she thinks im being smart. So she grabs my neck and tries to choke me, of course I react in self defense and grab her neck as well, but she doesn’t seem to let go, so i start punching her in her face and her head. so my mom breaks us apart. My sister tells me to just go die and kill myself….Now I look like a bad guy just because she got a scratch mark on her neck when it was her that attacked me first….I am moving in with my boyfriend, his sister, and her fiance soon but I really want to get out now. I have a feeling that If I don’t things are going to get worse for me, and they might actually put me in jail just because of my sister…I can’t move in with my boyfriend until he gets a job…

Sorry this was pretty long but I need advice. Please help. Best answer = 10pts

October 15th, 2011

What grade would you give my essay?

Question:
What grade would you give my essay on crime and punishment in the victorian era? Any advice? I especially need ideas/help for the conclusion! by the way this is for my 9th grade preAP english class.
Thanks! (The essay is below)

The Victorian Publics’ Outlook on Crime and Punishment
Locking doors, cautious eyes, and dreadful hallucinations of footsteps throughout the night, fearful dreams, and murderous thoughts clung to the minds of Victorians. No mercy, sympathy, forgiveness, compassion, or charity was the instant effect towards criminals. Although the press generated much of their ideas and panic towards crime and punishment, Victorian’s still held very strong opinions. The harsh punishment following crime in the Victorian era reflects the firm, and sometimes, unforgiving beliefs of people during that time.
Throughout the Victorian era the media played a big role on the public’s thoughts on crime and punishment. People weren’t aware how rare the huge criminal cases were. “It was always the more sensational stories that make the headlines and generate public fears, even panics.” (Emsley 321) Many people encouraged severe punishment because of their narrow views of criminals being serial killers. Dr. Thomas Neil Cream, who had murdered seven women, was the ideal example. “He was the kind of criminal who, by his actions, appeared both mad and evil; the kind of criminal that the general public want criminals to be – especially once they have been caught and executed.” (Emsley 1) This fear invited unforgiving attitudes towards crime. What Victorian’s didn’t know about murders was that only one per 100,000 people was murdered in the late 1800s. The threat was extremely unlikely. “Much of the panic appears to be generated by the press, notably the influential Times, which was seeking tougher punishment for offenders.” (Emsley 2) The press practically brainwashed people into promoting harder punishments for offenders. The media was the greatest influence on people in the Victorian era. It put fear, insecurity, and unforgiving feelings in the minds of many Victorians, which helped to lead to the unreasonable punishments for small crimes.
The press furthered their hopes for tougher consequences for offenders by publishing individuals’ crimes for the public to see, as a form of humiliating punishment. The offender’s full name and offence were listed in the local paper. “The first batch of miscreants to have their crimes publicized included twenty-three such dog-owners, three residents guilty of noise pollution, and four families who had been deemed ‘bad neighbors’.” (Croll 1) The media was trying to demonstrate punishment in any way that was possible. Having a dog, creating noise pollution, or being deemed a ‘bad neighbor’ does not seem like very appropriate crimes to be punished for, but in the 1800s it was considered quite outlandish. “ ‘Publicity’ was still seen as a means of both punishment and deterring; a way to regulate behavior in the great towns and cities of the nineteenth century.” (Croll 2) This ‘publicity’ had its planned and unplanned effects on society. It was planned for discipline to make that area a better place to live, work, and be around. It was not planned to bring panic upon the citizens. “The perception of such offenders could color the way offences were reported and provoke a panic as, most notably with London’s ‘garotting panic’ of 1862.” (Emsley 1) The unintentional scare made people even more concerned about criminals being punished firmly. Victorians just wanted to know that criminals were getting the punishment they deserved.
The public promoted the laborious jobs that young offenders were enduring at the time. Victorians thought children should be treated no differently than adults, including when it came to punishment. They believed punishment was the answer for the young. “Early Victorians and intermediate predecessors were concerned about what they believed to be an increase in criminal offences among the young.” (Emsley 323) For juvenile offences, children were sent to work. “Young offenders were taken to ‘houses of refuge’. These were ‘safe places’ where offenders were kept secure and sheltered from the risks of street life.” (Townsend 17) The public approved of these asylums. They cared about the safety of children, but believed that honest, hard work would teach them to be good citizens. The interests of Victorians were firm and decided. If a child misbehaved there were even further consequences. “If anyone broke the rules, he or she would spend days in a cell with just bread and water. The inmate was forced to sit chained to a heavy iron ball and was whipped.” (Townsend 17) The public had quite a bit of commentary in what was happening in the ‘houses of refuge’. They encouraged whipping young children under eighteen for disobedience. They thought the asylums would change the present juvenile delinquents into the future’s respectful citizens. Punishment was just a revitalizing process that corrected this so though, ill behavior.
Fear can easily intoxicate the mind if you let it. People in the Victorian era absorbed all they heard, fear, violence, and horrific stories. They especially pursued anything, and everything that revolved around the press and media. They let that fear inhabit their thoughts. No mercy, sympathy, forgiveness, compassion, or charity was the main result. The harsh punishments following crime were the reflections of fear, which created the firm, and unforgiving beliefs of most Victorians.

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September 28th, 2011

LGBT- Could you give me some advice.?

Question:
Ok this is the issue I am gay my relationship with my parents haven’t been all that good so recently I acppeted the fact that I am gay becuse I am teen with high speed wireless internet what do teens do when they a laptop and wifi they look up porn ok I was and grossed out by the female becuse there just gross but I thought I could choose who I an attracted to but it didn’t work. So I liked watching the guy becuse I thought he was hot ok I looked up gay porn and found it erotic ok athis point idk I just liked watching it I thought it was enjoyable. Little did I know I was gay! My friend who thought I was gay asked me and I said no I wasn’t so as time when forward I keep watching gay porn then one day I was picked out and said I was gay so I did research on the Internet seeing if I masturbated to gay porn am I gay and the answer was yes.!! So I told my friends I was gay one told me something that got to me she said that since I didn’t have a good relationship with my dad ok first off I never liked girls like that and my parents basicly bugged me to get a gf and I did and didn’t like it. Ok idt I want to have sex with another guy just becuse of my dad but when she said that I felt bad becuse I remember alot of bad memories but then I realize I couldn’t have sex with a girl becuse I still think there gross. I think guys are hot and my friend made me depressed becuse oh what shesaid then my mom tried confuseing me when I told he that i was gay she wanted me to have kids and wanted to have kids just not sex with a girl. She felt that I would have to have sex in order to be gay and since I never had sex I am not gay. I was then told that I don’t act gay. And that I needed to have kids. I just want to be happy without feeling guilty. It just got me when all of these events came to happen. Does anyone have any advice becuse it’s not my dad’s fault that I am gay is it?
September 17th, 2011

are there any parents out there that can give me tips on choosing a baby sitter?

Question:
I am going back to work so I have to find a long term baby sitter, for my 3 yr old and 1 yr old. Every one I know and trust have jobs, and I can’t use a day care center b/c my son is constantly sick. He has colds or infections all the time. With them comes the fever and any day care center would send him home and I would never be able to work. The only other option I can think about is hiring someone, but the thought of a stranger watching my kids terrify me. I’ve seen to many FBI Files type shows. Are there any other options out there or anything I can do to keep my kids safe? Thanks everyone
September 14th, 2011

Has anyone got any tips on how to persuade my parents to give me a moblie?

Question:
All my friends have one but my dad says no and my mum says yes. We have an old phone but i asked dad and he said no. Is there anything I can do?
September 10th, 2011

Am I a weird 18yo teen? What advice would u give me in life?

Question:
Am I a weird person. I am gonna e 18 in July. And I have never had a girlfriend. I am not gonna move out. In my culture it’s normal for kids to live with their parents and take care of them when they are old. Btw. The girl I love and loved since I was 9/10 hates me for no reason.
I am gonna be graduating in a week from high school and my parents haven’t even thought of a graduation present. I understand with all the money problems but it doesnt hurt to spend a bit. I do not have a job.

What tips would u give for me in the future? I am planning on going to college. But my grades are dropping massively. :(

September 9th, 2011

How to engage a teen who is quick to give up?

Question:
I’m not a parent yet, but I was homeschooled, so I’m sure homeschoolers would be able to give me good advice here. What do you do when your older teen doesn’t want to try? Suppose you’re working on a subject that they find difficult and stressful, and as soon as they come to a part that appears hard, they shut down completely. How do you get through to them and help them understand if they don’t want to try? Especially when you know they’d get it if they did?
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